Online dating site heart dective
Spira has been helping singles mingle for more than 20 years.
The Los Angeles-based online dating coach has between 50 and 100 clients at any given time, and she’s not afraid to share her two cents on common Tinder mistakes. But apparently there are guys — and make no mistake: guys are usually the ones making these errors, according to Spira — who insist on posting shirtless bathroom selfies on Tinder. “In the first shot, you need to look happy, you need to look confident.” No emo pictures. Show off your travel spots When it comes to travel, don’t just talk about it in your profile, but be about it.
Start a conversation with “hey” This shows you’re only willing to put in the absolute minimal effort required to start a conversation. Instead, compliment your match on what they’re wearing, or talk about something they mentioned in their profile. Wear sunglasses in your pictures This doesn’t make you look cool, fellas.
Instead, “it looks like you’re hiding something,” said Spira.
At 45, she was three years sober and on the leeward side of a stormy divorce.
Richie told her he was on vacation in Hawaii, but they planned to meet up as soon as he got back.