Dating nice people
So does that mean that strategically not returning texts or acting like you’re emotionally unavailable will create this value?Maybe, but isn’t there something noble about a man who can wade through the bullshit and tell her that he likes spending time with her?
I went on a date with him, and he spent a good portion of the date complaining about how single he was, and how he couldn’t understand why girls didn’t want to date him.It may just take time and the right circumstances for people to open up to one another.For the rest of us guys, who are still drifting aimlessly from one girls’ bedroom to the next in a post-coital search for something real, it’s certainly nice to think so.Every man can probably recall a time where he said fuck it, and just told her how he felt only to scare her off.
It goes deeper than the old clichés that nice guys finish last and that women love men who are assholes.
What is it about admitting that he’s in it for something more than a one-night stand that makes him suddenly needy?