Dating book by steve harvey Freemeet and fuck
But it's you who decides if you're going to give us any of the things we want, and how, exactly, we're going to get them.
Where you stand in our eyes is dictated by YOUR control over the situation.
Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love.” ― “I'm sure that if woman laid out the rules- requirements- early on, and let her intended know that he could either rise up to those requirements, or just move on.
The first step, I think, is to get over the fear of losing a man by confronting him. The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they want is much more productive than sitting around being too scared to take a shot.The same philosophy can be applied to dating: if putting your requirements on the table means you risk him walking away, it's a risk you have to take.Because that fear can trip you up every time; all too many of you let the guy get away with disrespecting you, putting in minimal effort and holding on to the commitment to you because you're afraid he's going to walk away and you'll be alone again. We recognize this and play on it, big time.” ― “I'm here to tell you, though, ladies that the term "gold digger" is one of the traps we men set to keep you off our money trail; we created that term for you so that we can have all our money and still get everything we want from you without you asking for or expecting this very basic, instincual responsibility that men all over the world are obligated to assume and embrace. KNOW THIS: It is your right to expect that a man will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exhange for your time.” ― “You're an investigator - can't nobody find stuff out like a woman.She knew she wanted a monogamous relationship-a partnership with a man who wanted to be a dedicated husband and father.
She also knew this man had to be faithful, love God, and be willing to do what it took to keep this family together.Y'all put the police to shame, make the little investigative tricks they show on CSI and Law & Order: SVU look like counting lessons on Sesame Street.” ― “Women can go over it again and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right," "I wasn't good enough," "I didn't love him the way I should," "she came in here and outperformed me"-but the fact still remeinas that he didn't have any business cheating.