Dating a sociopath stories
After thinking about it, I decided I would give it a shot.That week I met with my boss and told her about my potential plans.Our conversations lasted about 5-10 minutes in duration and it seemed like he either had to rush to get somewhere or he called me late at night and said he was tired and going to bed.Typically when he travels, we spend an adequate amount of time talking to compensate for our physical separation, but this time it was different. We're not married so I can't be added to his medical benefits and I can't afford to give mine up.I was so excited to meet his family as he had already been getting to know mine for a year now.Since we were already going out there, he asked me to really look at Chicago as a place to potentially move should he get the job and accept.That is where he is from originally and his whole family still lives there.
He also said that he realized I would be giving up everything I ever knew so the decision was really mine.We have a couple of online accounts together that he set up, all with the same password.Sneaky as you may think I was, I decided to bring up his cell phone bill and use that password. I looked at the numbers dialed in December and sure enough her numbers were dialed multiple times a day. He was doing some work with her company and she was his contact.I work for a large company (actually my ex and I work for the same company) and the ideal would be to stay with them. When nothing was available for me right away, I decided to look externally. The holidays came and went and he didn't receive the official offer for the job. Every time I asked him what was wrong, he said he was stressed he didn't hear anything about the job yet and he was sure he would actually be starting it by now. On Thursday, January 10th I had the urge to look through his cell phone address book while he was in the shower that morning.
My ex helped me update my resume and gave me a list of companies to look into that were good out there. In our company, that comes in the form or a written letter or email..if you just change positions but stay with the company. I like to think it was a sign from my Mom who was looking down on me from Heaven.He took me to a college football game and I even bought a whole bunch of Chicago gear to join in the team spirit.