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06-Jul-2020 10:41
Rio’s current dating culture felt like what I imagined 1960s America was — everyone enjoying life and getting a piece of the action.But the 2010s American dating culture has grown cold, materialistic, and highly transactional.Brazilian women are known for being flakey and plans are always tentative.Fortunately, dating in America has more than braced me for this.I told a few girls, “You deserve better than a tourist who’s only in town for a week,” which is a pretty radical shift from the way I’ve approached casual travel dating in American cities. Mugging is an issue if you walk through the favelas or walk alone on a quiet street at night.It’s a little rough around the edges but you know that going in. A lot of people who have lived in Rio for a few years have a mugging story. Since my Portuguese wasn’t that good, I didn’t go out to the bars on my own.With most American girls, you have to be highly entertaining, exceedingly witty, and even pornographic all at exactly the right times to hold their interest for a fleeting moment.With Brazilian girls, I felt like I could drop the script and be myself a bit more and *gasp* even show affection and call them beautiful without them pulling away like American girls tend to do.
We all know Tinder is mostly dead for regular guys in the U. I was blown away by both the quality and quantity of Brazilian girls I matched with because it simply just doesn’t happen in the American Tinder world. It was also a huge relief to see that sugar dating has not penetrated South America the way it has the United States. Of A., that line is becoming blurred by Seeking Arrangement (a sugar dating site that has only a small amount of users in Brazil, comparatively)On Tinder, I’d ask Brazilian girls something like, They’d answer and then ask me the same question and I’d tell them “Brazil!
I do realize there’s somewhat of a “geo-arbitrage” effect going on when an American man comes swooping in and starts throwing money around in a 2nd world country.
