17 dating a 22 year old dating violence dvds
She apparently was raped by a friend years before she met me, and was still suffering some major trauma.
I tried to get her to go into therapy, but she refused, and her emotional problems ended up driving a wedge in between us.
Yeah, I'm not necessarily really against this age difference, but when I was 22, I had absolutely no desire to date 17 year olds and didn't even cross my mind to think of them as dateable.
There's a huge difference in terms of where people are at at that specific time in life.
Considering that I was almost done with college, it wasn't exactly the ideal situation.
4 year difference yes, but also consider that there is a huge difference of a 17 yr old dating a 13 yr old... LOL 22 yrs old wanting to date a 17 yr old sounds like you don't want to grow up and date someone your own age.
I made it quite clear to her that if we're gonna date I'm not having sex with her till shes 18 and if she likes me as much as she thinks shes does she'll wait, so far shes agreed to it.
Well he did so that a lot of the girls his own age he's meeting have kids already.
I mean it could be that he's not meeting the right women but I can sympathize with him a little bit. Well he did so that a lot of the girls his own age he's meeting have kids already.
Plus gut instinct is to think of the older person as a creep.
Maybe not fair, we don't know OP, but he's going to have to deal with that and accept that he will be seen as a creep in his and her social circles.I know a 26 year old guy who is dating a 19 year old, from his own words "a lot of things are easier with younger girls" but he nevertheless cries that sometimes she is really immature. People the world over are capable of having a nice dating relationship without sex being involved. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.